in Christ i strong enough^^

long time didnt write my blog because of busying $$$...must hard work on writing my blog started from now...and wish for me and my beloved one kai wen will be love 4ever and wait for him 4 yr <3 .... started our love relationship from 28th December 2011...i love u the most kelvin tan kai wen...beloved sha gua lao gong <3

Friday, November 27, 2009

Money money~



With money you can buy a house but not a home
With money you can buy a clock but not time
With money you can buy a bed but not sleep
With money you can buy a book but not knowledge
With money you can see a doctor but not good health
With money you can buy a position but not respect
With money you can buy blood but not life
With money you can buy sex but not love
With money you can buy a game but not happiness

This is the Chinese proverb that i have learned in my life.

Money in our daily life is very important.So, it is very important to manage your money properly, to ensure you don't get into debt, and to make sure it goes as far as it can. We should use money in proper way such as food, shelter, love, drinks, cloth, hairstyle, make-up,face wash and many physical thing that needed money to solve it. So, we should save the money from wasting the money on useless thing. Cloth,face,hairstyle,and many physical thing just a temporary for us. After death, all money will be gone together with the death people. So, we should appreciate our money for important usage of our life and for our future. We should not waste our money on something that not usage for us. In education, we should waste more money to get more knowledge in there and be a success person in the world. In physical life, we should save the money but not waste on buying new cloth because of the modern world change day per day, we should not waste on change hairstyle because another people also following modern world. We should be ourselves until the cloth really can't fit to our body day per day, until will get scold when go school or college because of hair too long then we go have a cut. Because of the environment change day per day, many people will get influence of the environment and change themselves because of the money. I born in a average family. But money make our family always argue with each other. My father don't have job then he also 1 month got 3 times go kudat for earn another income from our estate and my mom work as a account clerk and her salary not enough cover our house installment, car insurance, life insurance, education insurance, my college fee, my 2 brother school fee, daily meal, car oil, electricity, internet and telephone fee, and many more that needed many money. Then, i forced to go outside find part time job to help my mum cover the problem in our family. After, my younger brother finish his SPM, he also will come out do part time job for helping my mum. Money really important to our family, without money, my family really hard to continue survive and should save for more to let my both older parent can relax without wasting money at outside. But i am useless to do that, 1 month i can get RM150 for my daily life from my part time job salary and other will give my mum for other usage of our family problem. Part time work at night, morning have to study in ATI college. I hope I can quick finish my studies and open a small pastry cake house for future and earn more money for my parent retired day...~take care mummy....take care daddy...love you all....I know both of you already do many for our family daily uses. Is the time to let both of you to relax and let me, ah boy, and baby to earn money. We all love you. GOD blessing our family until forever. Money won't be a problem again for our future if us successes at our studies.

Friday, November 20, 2009

Girl's thinking

THIS IS THE EMAIL THAT MY FRIEND SEND IT TO ME...THIS MESSAGE IS IN CHINESE VERSION, AND I TRANSLATE IT INTO ENGLISH VERSION...MAYBE GOT A BIT WRONG TRANSLATE BUT ITS TRUE FOR ALL GIRL~....TO BOY~MUST UNDERSTAND WHAT GIRL THINKING WHEN TRULY LOVE A BOY~


其实很多男孩子都不知道,女孩子在冲他们发火后自己转过身却在不断啜泣。
Actually many boy don’t know, girl always get angry but crying like baby after turn over the boy.
其实很多男孩子都不知道,女孩子从来不会真正去生他们的气,因为她是真的喜欢他在乎他。
Actually many boy don’t know, girl won’t really angry to the boy, because she really like him and care him.
其实很多男孩子都不知道,女孩子只会对自己喜欢的男生唠唠叨叨,
Actually many boy don’t know, girl will only treat her boy friend “ngam cham”/ “lousy”,
也只会对自己喜欢的人耍性子。
And will only playing temper with the guy her like.
你要知道,假若她不喜欢你,她根本不会来在乎你关心你,怕你做错事情。
You must know that, if she really doesn’t like you, she will not care about you, and scare you do wrong things.
你要知道,假若她不喜欢你,她根本不会对你发火不会冲你撒娇让你哄她,
You must know that, if she really doesn’t like you, she will never anger at you and act like a baby to let you coax her,
在别人面前她都是淑女。
In front of other, she acts like ladies.
你要知道,假若她不喜欢你,你根本就没有本事让她哭泣,让她即使生气也不会超过2天。
You must know that, if she doesn’t like you, you are simply not capable let her cry, even if the anger would not let her more than 2 days.
而这一切都只是因为她喜欢你,而这一切都因为你还不够在意她不够懂她。
All this is just because she likes you; all this is all because of you not enough care about her not enough understand about what she was thinking for you.
于是,你们时常争吵,你认为她脾气不好,她认为你不够迁就她。
So, you and her often quarrel, and then you will think that her temper not good and she will think you not enough considerate her.
于是,你们总是冷战,你以为她不喜欢你,她以为你不在乎她。
So, you and her often cold with each other, then you think she don’t like you, and she will think you not care about her anymore.
于是,你们总是莫名其妙的彼此错过,也许擦身而过,本身就是一种悲伤着的无奈与幸福。
So, you and her often somehow miss each other, maybe passing with each other, is itself a kind of helplessness with sadness and happiness.
因为她喜欢你,所以她偶尔冲你发火,时常对你撒娇。
Because she likes you, so she occasionally gets angry at you, and she often act like a baby to you.
因为她喜欢你,所以她才会生你的气;
Because she likes you, so she will mad at you;
而又因为喜欢你,她才不会去生气很久。
But partly because she likes you, she won’t angry at you for long time.
你可知道,每个女孩子的心都是水晶做的,晶莹剔透,但是很容易就碰伤摔碎。
You should know that, every girl’s heart is making from crystal, sparkling, but easy bumps shattered.
你可知道,每个女孩子都是不设防的,你那么轻易就闯进她的心,走的时候却只留下伤害。
You should know that, every girl is undefended, you been easy to break into her heart, when leave just will left hurt.
她从来都不知道,这个世界上根本没有可以让她哭的人,
She will never know, in this world there is no one who can make her easily cry,
因为真正值得她哭的那个根本舍不得让她哭。
Because the boy she truly deserving to cry actually doesn’t want let her crying.
她会很矜持,
She will very restrained,
她会很骄傲,
She will very proud,
她会很冷淡,
She will very cool,
她总是嘴里说着你走开,心里却一直叫你留下。
Her mouth always spoke you to leave, but heart still want you to stay beside her.
你了解女孩吗?
Did you really understand girl?
请你张开你的耳朵,也请你打开你的心,去听她心里真正的呼唤,而不是她嘴里的口是心非。
Please open your ears, and please open your heart, go heard what her heart really wanted, but not hear from her mouth that duplicity.
她会看着你转身,然后她跟着你转身,当侧身而过的时候,你看不见她的泪,滂沱在脸上心里。
She will look at you turn around, then she also will follow you turn around, and actually she cry, but you can’t see it totally on her face.
如果你喜欢她,请你多陪她;
If you really like her, please care her more;
如果你喜欢她,请你多宠她;
If you really like her, please treat her good;
如果你喜欢她,请你多让她。
If you really like her, please give her more space.
如果你喜欢她,请你去听听她内心的声音,那是呐喊——请拥抱她。
If you really like her, please go and listen to her inner voice, which was cry – please hug her.
在爱情里,总是彼此伤害,彷佛这样才能证明自己爱得激烈爱到轰轰烈烈。
In love life, often got hurt between each other, this seems to be prove that their love vigorous with each other.
可是,爱情里没有孰对孰错;
However, love there is no person that who right or wrong;
爱情里更加没有你比我多我比你少。
In love, there is not saying that you love me more or less than you.
你爱她,她爱你,如此就已经足够。
You love her, she love you, which already is enough for each other.
不要试图让彼此的伤害,让彼此更加脆弱悲伤。
Don’t try to let each other get hurt; make each other more weak and sadness.
你们彼此相爱,你们需要的是温暖是幸福是甜蜜是快乐,不是伤害。
You and her love one another, need warm, sweet that is joy of happiness, but not hurt.
不要用沉默宣战,不要互不相让,
Don’t use silent make cool war with each other, must give each other forgiveness,
更不要什么话都不讲就冷漠离去。
And don’t cool with each other then leave away without saying anything to one another.
要知道,你离去的时候,你的眼睛起了雾,她的眼角泛着泪光。
You must know that, when you leave her, your eyes form fog, and her eyes suffused with tears.
越是安静战火就越深,这是冷战也是彼此的伤害——
More silent, the deeper the war, this is cool war and is hurt to one another –
无论是怎么的复合,那些伤口曾经存在,抹不去。
No matter how to get one another back, those wounds have been there before and can’t wipe it away easily.
请跟她一个拥抱,用你的拥抱去化解她心里的悲伤与眼角的泪水。
Please have a hug with her, with your embrace to resolve thought of the sorrow and tears in her heart.
她喜欢你,她绝对不会拒绝你的拥抱,她只会害怕你的冷漠转身无声安静。
She likes you, she will never reject your embrace, and she just will be afraid your cold turns over and become silent quiet.
请记住,相爱的人不要轻易宣战,因为冷战带来的伤害,超出你的预计。
Please always remember that, don’t declare war on those who love each other because of the cold war brought harm than you expected.
也请记住,只要你喜欢她,没有什么是你接受不了的,只要你喜欢她,就喜欢她的一切一切。
And please remember that, as long as you like her, there is nothing that you can’t be accepted, as long as you liked her, liked her things totally.
那么她所有的小性子所有的坏脾气所有的臭毛病,在你眼里都是撒娇。
So all her little temper, all the bad temper and all the foul problems, in your eyes just she like act a baby in front you.
也请记住,她喜欢你,她需要的不是你真的转身,她嘴里说着的也不是她的真心话。
And please remember that, she like you, she does not need you really turn around, because her mouth spoke nor is her truth.
她只是想你宠她,想你抱她,哪怕,没有道谦。
She just wanted you pet her, want you to hold her hug her, even if there is no apologies.

Thursday, October 29, 2009

hey~

long time no post thing inside this blog...very feel sorry to my friends~because of no idea to write something inside here...but just wanna say~friendship very important to us routine day~without friends...we cant have happy life~~when we are alone..we will need them for some caring~when we are sad...we will need their shoulder to cry...when we in trouble...we will need friends to give support and give aid with each other~
"A friend should be radical
They should love you when you're unlovable
Hug you when you're unhuggable
And bear you when you're unbareable
A friend should be fanatical
They should cheer when the
whole world boos
Dance when you get good news
And cry when you cry too
But most of all, a friend should be mathematical
They should mutiply your joy
Divide the sorrow
Subtract t
he past
And add to tomorrow
Calculate the need deep in your heart
And always be bigger than the sum of all your parts"
this message really let me know friendship important~ thanks GOD.... after i argue with my friends ai wen... then i realise that i already lose a best friend in my life...and should appreaciate what i have gone~after lose her....then i realise that i still have many friends stay beside me and support me,give advice to me...thanks to all my fellow friends....^^i very enjoy everything i have now...thanks GOD....~give me a new life to make friends with other...make my life no more lonely...~^^i will more appreaciate it...^^friendship will never end~

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

i like DOG

Today...wanna post something on my blog...i post some picture of my best friend dog....3 in yellow color dog....
This dog name Amanda...she is a cute and like to "MANJA" to people using her hand to rub her face and ears...cute....she is a mix havanese dog....when she still a baby...she is a very quiet and shy dog....but when she was grow...she changed a lot...become naughty girl...hehe~~
Simon..Is my best friend third dog...golden retriever dog...he very smart...when I ask for shake hand...he will shake hand with me...when throw ball to him to fetch up...he will go find the ball that i have throw to other side of the house....and wag tail give me back the ball....he like to play with people....his saliva left on my cloth all the time...hehe....
This is my photo that i take with Simon....he so silent when take picture...so handsome...hehe...wanna hug him...but he so naughty when saw me and crawl over me...aikksss....cute....make me more dirty
This 3 doggie,most i like is Jack...because from he still small....then i look at him...love him...whatever he always bite me,scratch me,bark at me, and play with me but i still like him....he just like my own son....hope my future baby not so naughty such as him...hehe~~Jack is a kind of chihuahua mix with fox dog..a cute and naughty dog...when he naughty,he will start barking people and bite people....really cant control him!But I already get used to his attitude to me...hehe~muackss....i love my best friend too whatever i always argue with her....but i still treat her as my best best friend in my heart...love you...wong ooi boon....and all our baby dog...





Tuesday, October 13, 2009

hihi...


this blog is my another blog....sorry because i cant let other people see my secret thing in that blog...so i need to open a new blog to show my other story in my life....hope u all can add me and become my friends....and view my story give some comment on it...thanks a lot...~